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Volunteer Experience
Jessica Tychsen CASA Class, Fall 2004 When I moved into my own apartment after graduation from There is no denying that I harbored huge hesitations about working directly with something so gruesome and unthinkable as child abuse and the persons who inflict it. My only experience with children was through a babysitting job I had with a very wealthy family during my time in college. It made me angry that anyone would even think of hurting a child, and I believe this anger is what fueled my desire to apply to the program. After a couple months of training, I received my first appointment involving an abused baby. As I read through the case history, and all that this baby and his older sister had been through, I was infuriated. When I got to the section on the parent's history, however, my fury subsided and was replaced by sympathy. These parents had both been severely abused and neglected as well. The more experience I had with CASA, the more I realized that most of these cases involve a vicious cycle where the abusers were abused themselves. Through CASA, I saw first hand the dilapidated homes these children were ushered in and out of after each court date. I had lengthy discussions with their doctors, teachers, and therapists. On court dates, I presented reports and arguments to the judge, along with a recommendation as to the best placement for the child/children involved. Having thoroughly explored every crevice of the case, I was able to report important details that may have been overlooked. In my most recent case, I worked with a seven-year-old girl named ‘Jody’ who had a long history of physical and sexual abuse. I accompanied her to school one morning from the substance abuse recovery residence her mother was in. When we walked into the bustling first grade classroom, ‘Jody’ introduced me as her Guardian Ad Litem. A few minutes later, a young boy whose face was sprinkled with freckles tapped me on the arm. Very matter-of-factly he asked, "Where are your wings?" With a confused smile I responded, "Excuse me?" "Well if you're a guardian angel, then where are your wings?" he stammered. It became clear to me at that point that children, despite their various backgrounds, still retain the hope and innocence that keeps them optimistically believing in presences like guardian angels. I feel very fortunate to have been intimately exposed to this dichotomy in the lives of children. Some things that I have learned from my experiences as a babysitter and as a CASA are that all children deserve someone to give them the political weight and voice they lack. Neglect comes in many forms, but most damage that occurs in youth is not irreversible, and with proper love and care, the future holds so many possibilities for these small people.
Volunteer Experience
Margaret Welsh
CASA Class, Spring 2004
One day last August I walked into a daycare center carrying a birthday present for a little boy who had just turned three. As he came over to me he looked at the gift and didn’t say anything, just stared at the blue wrapping paper covered with sports equipment. I knelt down and handed it to him telling him that this was his birthday present from CASA. He looked up uncertainly at his teacher and she nodded to him then he took the gift from me, quickly unwrapped it, and threw the paper to the floor. His face lit up as he looked at the carrying case filled with blocks. His teacher told him that the word printed on the front in green paint was his name. He repeated what she said as a question and then he proudly pointed to it and said, “My name.” His teacher told me that he hadn’t received any other gifts for his birthday, that while the foster home he was in was nice, they didn’t celebrate birthdays. I’m often asked what I “get” out of being a CASA and I find it an incredibly difficult question to answer. In my three years as a volunteer I have experienced and seen things I never could have dreamed of, some of them good and some of them discouraging. I have learned about different types of love and selflessness and those experiences are what keep me coming back to this program. On one of my cases I was told by an older brother who is an admitted gang member that he would have a talk with his 14 year old brother who had recently run away from his foster home. Later I learned from their sister that during a visit the older brother put his arm around the younger one and sat with him on the front steps of her home. She said that he told his brother about the mistakes that he had made in his life and that he was “too old” to change his life – he was 19. He told his brother that he needed to stay at the foster home, to go to school, and create a life for himself that was free of gangs. The 14 year old is now 16, has been adopted by the foster parent and will be entering high school this fall. While this success is due to the hard work of a lot of people, myself included, it is also due to a love that I had never witnessed before, the love of a brother who was determined that his younger brother would not follow in his footsteps and the love of a mother who knew she could not take care of her children and had released them for adoption. Things have to be pretty bad for a case to make it to a CASA and you can spend some time feeling like you are spinning your wheels in the mud, but I have learned that at some point the wheels will break free and it is worth the wait. It is not always easy to be a CASA, it can be time consuming, frustrating, and, at times, heartbreaking. But then there are moments when you realize that without you the judge wouldn’t have known a key piece of information, a child would not have received the therapy he desperately needs, or a parent, either biological or adoptive, would not have been given access to resources that will help them create a healthy home for a child. These are the moments that make it all worthwhile. Earlier this August I went to visit a little boy in his new foster home, the home that may soon be his adoptive home. I carried in a package wrapped in blue paper decorated with fish. The little boy, who was soon to turn four, ran over to me and asked if it was for him. I told him that it was his birthday present from CASA, his soon to be adoptive mother took it from my hands and told him she would put it with the others for him to open on his birthday. She opened a closet door and put the present on the top shelf next to a mound of brightly wrapped gifts.
Volunteer Experience
Imogene Fish
CASA Class, Fall 1993
There were tears of joy in the courtroom of the Boston Juvenile Court on the day that Sarah regained custody of her two young daughters who, for nearly two years, had been residing in foster care. It was Sarah’s troubled background of substance abuse that initially led to the summons that required her to appear in Court where, for reasons of substantiated neglect, she lost custody of her children. Expeditiously removed from their mother’s squalid apartment by the Department of Social Services, the tearful girls were placed in foster homes. Now two years later, the young mother, who had availed herself of a variety of medical, psychological, and social services offered to her by DSS, was deemed ready to care for her children and was joyfully reunited with them. As the CASA volunteer assigned to this case, that day in court marked the satisfying end to time and energy well spent: conducting home visits, studying case and health records, monitoring the girls’ progress in school and day care, advocating for appropriate services to meet their complex educational, emotional and social needs, negotiating the tangled web of services provided by state agencies, meeting with attorneys and DSS case workers, attending court hearings and writing reports for consideration by the presiding judge. And never forgetting that it is the CASA’s responsibility to be guided at all times by “the best interests” of the children, serving always as their voice and advocate. I have been a CASA volunteer for many years, and while this is not a job for the faint-hearted, it has been an enormously satisfying journey. Each case presents a unique set of challenges and circumstances, and while outcomes have not all been as favorable as was Sarah’s, there is ample opportunity within each case for the committed CASA to help improve the quality of life of the abused and neglected children involved. Most importantly, my experience with the CASA program has convinced me that the Court benefits greatly from CASA’s objective reporting and carefully considered recommendations when disposing of the overwhelming number of troubling cases involving these vulnerable children so deserving of a brighter future. I await assignment to my next case.
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